No matter how much you may be in love, a romantic lull may happen in your relationship and it is similar to writer’s block. It will be a time when you are not really attracted to your lover, you have a “take it or leave it” attitude towards sex. Don’t fret, you know deep inside that this is only temporary. In this case, ride the wave because when the time comes around to be attracted to your lover and to enjoy sexual intimacy again, then it will be better because we all know that leaving something to the side and holding back makes it even more exciting when the time finally comes, or as the old adage says, “Absence makes the heart grow fonder”. Don’t force intimacy if you are not feeling it. Do not push romance if you do not feel the urge. Take this advice only if this is you not feeling it, rememebr that your partner may feel differently and so honest and open communication is always important.
When the series of romantic lulls is over and you are feeling frisky again, then you might hit a brick wall of ideas for romance. Try the internet, there are many resources on romance ideas like this great one I found here, search the romance ideas for lovers and get your mind spinning with ideas! One thing to never forget is that if you should not keep a straight and serious face and attitude towards inducing romance.
It may seem awkward and might backfire in the sense where you will set more of a comical mood, not a romantic mood -but – this is not a bad thing, you just have to take it with a grain of salt and be prepared for anything. As goes in life, if you are flexible and have a sense of humor and go with the flow, anything you plan will be memorable, no matter how crazy it ends up being or what silly little faults you may encounter along the way.
Perfect example, I had a great romantic idea to draw a bubble bath in the jacuzzi. We got in, it was so romantic with bubbles and cndles and rose petals on the floor. Then we tunred on the jets and you know what happened next? The bubbles GREW! almost to the roof, I put in way too much bubble bath. Needless to say, there was no romance anymore. My romantic idea went doew the drain, what a failiure! It was one of the funniest moments of my life. I learned never to put too muchy bubble bath in jacuzzi tub! I also learned to have a sense of humor and be flexible with any romantic plans that you may have.
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Tags: romance, romantic advice, sensuality, sex
