“Oh my gosh, its our first date and I’m sweating through my shirt!” Have you ever found yourself whispering this exact phrase to yourself while sitting next to that hunk or babe you’ve finally snagged? Do you maybe have a first date coming up and heaven forbid it happens again? Well this article will help you to overcome your fear of dating and allow you to concentrate more on your hot date than on your sticky arm pits!
Do’s
-Wear something loose, but flattering, and over all, comfortable. Stay away from silk and satin type materials as they tend to soak up sweat into the material and let the whole world see. Cottons are best as the breath, and are usually more comfortable.
-Keep your personal hygiene at it’s maximum. Brush your teeth, brush your hair, and make sure you don’t look like a slob. They will think, “If they are clean up there, they are probably clean down there!”
-Keep the conversation equal. A little about you, and a little about them. Talk about positive experiences and a little about your family.
-Offer to open doors and let them ahead on escalators. This will show how kind hearted and proud of them you are. A real winner on first date.
-Offer to pay. If they insist on sharing the costs, let them. This just shows you will take matters into your own hands if need be, but you are willing to share the spotlight.
-Be honest, but not to honest. Lying right off the bat will only lead you into more trouble later on in the relationship. Of course if they ask you some offensive questions or questions you are ashamed to answer, just play it cool and try to change the subject.
-Compliment your date. Tell them how lovely they look, and try to pick one thing to emphasize. If you like their jewelry, their hairstyle or even their handbag, let them know. Compliments are a sure fire way of winning a second date.
Dont’s
-Give away too much. Pick one or the other. A short skirt or a low cut shirt, not both. You want them to wonder, but you don’t want them to look like a hussy. So pick your favorite clothes, but keep it conservative.
-Brag about something. When its your turn to talk about yourself, sure go on about something you are proud of or something you’ve achieved, but don’t go on and on and on. This can quickly turn to arrogance.
-Insist on paying if they insist on sharing they bill. This will just make you look like you cannot back down, and always have to win.
-Over compliment your date. This could get annoying and make you sound like a creep. Just the right amount will win your way in to their heart.
-Bring up your sex toys, just yet! This should be discussed later on, maybe after the fifth or sixth sexual encounter. You don’t want to scare them away, and you don’t want them to think you cannot do wonders on your own. You first need to prove you are up to the challenge by yourself, but you are definitely down for some dirty action as well!
Stick to these easy to remember tips for your first date, and it should be a breeze! Simple, comfortable and easy going are the best ways to start a relationship. Be loving and honest, and show your date you are interested in them. A second date is right around the corner! Happy dating!
