To Dine or not to Dine

Are you the type to wine and dine your date? It’s a question of tradition. To enjoy a romantic dinner together is really a memorable date idea because it’s very traditional. Many men would not want to do this because of two reasons:

1.) it’s overdone and seems un-creative
2.) it’s expensive

I’ll give it to you from a woman’s perspective, we LOVE to be wined and dined. Even though it’s not the most outgoing date we’ll ever see, it really is a great way to get to know each other becuase there is no better setting that forces you to talk. There is no disraction, just the couple facing each other.

It is you two in solitide. From a woman’s point of view, any man that rejects the idea of going out for a dinner suggets that they have difficulty communicating. They fear conversation, maybe they have low self esteeem and fear face to face conversation. maybe none of these are the case but the whole point is that women will over anazlyze the fact that the man does not want to go for a romantic dinner.

In between your visits to the zoo and dance lessons, take a break for a dinner and get to know each other better, it’s an intimate setting without being intimate on a sexual way. Maybe it might lead up to that, who knows?

Don’t let your woman over-analyze you, take what I said to heart and even if you’re not the type and yo think a romantic dinner is over done, do it anyway becuase women actually like the conversation and there is nothing wrong with a little good ol’fashioned tradition.

Romantic Dryspell

No matter how much you may be in love, a romantic lull may happen in your relationship and it is similar to writer’s block. It will be a time when you are not really attracted to your lover, you have a “take it or leave it” attitude towards sex. Don’t fret, you know deep inside that this is only temporary. In this case, ride the wave because when the time comes around to be attracted to your lover and to enjoy sexual intimacy again, then it will be better because we all know that leaving something to the side and holding back makes it even more exciting when the time finally comes, or as the old adage says, “Absence makes the heart grow fonder”. Don’t force intimacy if you are not feeling it. Do not push romance if you do not feel the urge. Take this advice only if this is you not feeling it, rememebr that your partner may feel differently and so honest and open communication is always important.

When the series of romantic lulls is over and you are feeling frisky again, then you might hit a brick wall of ideas for romance. Try the internet, there are many resources on romance ideas like this great one I found here, search the romance ideas for lovers and get your mind spinning with ideas! One thing to never forget is that if you should not keep a straight and serious face and attitude towards inducing romance.
It may seem awkward and might backfire in the sense where you will set more of a comical mood, not a romantic mood -but - this is not a bad thing, you just have to take it with a grain of salt and be prepared for anything. As goes in life, if you are flexible and have a sense of humor and go with the flow, anything you plan will be memorable, no matter how crazy it ends up being or what silly little faults you may encounter along the way.

Perfect example, I had a great romantic idea to draw a bubble bath in the jacuzzi. We got in, it was so romantic with bubbles and cndles and rose petals on the floor. Then we tunred on the jets and you know what happened next? The bubbles GREW! almost to the roof, I put in way too much bubble bath. Needless to say, there was no romance anymore. My romantic idea went doew the drain, what a failiure! It was one of the funniest moments of my life. I learned never to put too muchy bubble bath in jacuzzi tub! I also learned to have a sense of humor and be flexible with any romantic plans that you may have.

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First Date Do’s & Don’ts

“Oh my gosh, its our first date and I’m sweating through my shirt!” Have you ever found yourself whispering this exact phrase to yourself while sitting next to that hunk or babe you’ve finally snagged? Do you maybe have a first date coming up and heaven forbid it happens again? Well this article will help you to overcome your fear of dating and allow you to concentrate more on your hot date than on your sticky arm pits!

 

Do’s

-Wear something loose, but flattering, and over all, comfortable. Stay away from silk and satin type materials as they tend to soak up sweat into the material and let the whole world see. Cottons are best as the breath, and are usually more comfortable.

-Keep your personal hygiene at it’s maximum. Brush your teeth, brush your hair, and make sure you don’t look like a slob. They will think, “If they are clean up there, they are probably clean down there!”

-Keep the conversation equal. A little about you, and a little about them. Talk about positive experiences and a little about your family.

-Offer to open doors and let them ahead on escalators. This will show how kind hearted and proud of them you are. A real winner on first date.

-Offer to pay. If they insist on sharing the costs, let them. This just shows you will take matters into your own hands if need be, but you are willing to share the spotlight.

-Be honest, but not to honest. Lying right off the bat will only lead you into more trouble later on in the relationship. Of course if they ask you some offensive questions or questions you are ashamed to answer, just play it cool and try to change the subject.

-Compliment your date. Tell them how lovely they look, and try to pick one thing to emphasize. If you like their jewelry, their hairstyle or even their handbag, let them know. Compliments are a sure fire way of winning a second date.

 

Dont’s

-Give away too much. Pick one or the other. A short skirt or a low cut shirt, not both. You want them to wonder, but you don’t want them to look like a hussy. So pick your favorite clothes, but keep it conservative.

-Brag about something. When its your turn to talk about yourself, sure go on about something you are proud of or something you’ve achieved, but don’t go on and on and on. This can quickly turn to arrogance.

-Insist on paying if they insist on sharing they bill. This will just make you look like you cannot back down, and always have to win.

-Over compliment your date. This could get annoying and make you sound like a creep. Just the right amount will win your way in to their heart.

-Bring up your sex toys, just yet! This should be discussed later on, maybe after the fifth or sixth sexual encounter. You don’t want to scare them away, and you don’t want them to think you cannot do wonders on your own. You first need to prove you are up to the challenge by yourself, but you are definitely down for some dirty action as well!

 

Stick to these easy to remember tips for your first date, and it should be a breeze! Simple, comfortable and easy going are the best ways to start a relationship. Be loving and honest, and show your date you are interested in them. A second date is right around the corner! Happy dating!

Have A Sexy Easter!

After the easter egg hunt is over, and your belly’s are full of chocolate, is it just bed time? No way! Now is the time when the easter bunny really comes out to play, and between the two of you, a lot of wild rabbit play is expected! But what toys are best for easter? Well they should be themed of course! Rabbit vibrators and clitoral stimulator’s, or even a sexy bunny costume! Here are some product ideas:

The Rabbit Teaser: This sex toy is designed for maximum pleasure with the most discreet experience in mind. If you want to be discreet that is! This power packed baby bunny can stimulate your clitoris, nipples, anus, or any of your partners naughty bits with its sweet puffy tail, its curious ears or its tender nose! Any of these extremities are perfect for stimulation as this toy is made from a firm jelly and can please oh-so-well! Makes the perfect easter gift!

The Rabbit Tickler Clitoral Stimulator: This is a vibrating egg with a small removable rabbit sleeve. The bullet can be used on its own for ultra-exhilarating clitoral and vaginal stimulation, or slip on the sexy jelly sleeve and slide the dual bunny ears around your clitoris for some real orgasmic sensations! This bunny clit toy has multi-speed controls and can be slipped discreetly into her private easter basket!

Waterproof Jack Rabbit 2: Whats better than the Waterproof Jack Rabbit Vibrator? Well the Waterproof Jack Rabbit 2 of course! This vibrator has all the features you need for the most intense orgasm you’ll ever experience! A independent gyrating penis shaped head will massage circles inside you, while the rows of rotating metal beads will stimulate your vagina opening. Now this sure ain’t it, you also get to experience the erotic sensation of the clitoral stimulating rabbit ears. This piece also has separate vibrating controls so you can have a slower vibrating sensation but a faster gyrating penis head, or vise versa! Customize your orgasm and enjoy your easter surprise with this sexy Waterproof Jack Rabbit 2 vibrator. Give yourself an easter treat, or spoil your lover with this fancy rabbit vibrator for her!

Sexy Rabbit Costume: Feeling a little cheeky? Slip on your sexy bunny costume and hope around like you own the place! Tease your lover with your sexy bunny body, and slide around the room watching him drool! This is a fun way of making easter a sexy, romantic holiday! You can play many bunny games, like chase the sexy easter bunny, and if you can catch her, oh well then she gets it! What a wonderfully kinky easter holiday!

Enjoy your easter by making it a sexy holiday! You don’t have to wait until next Valentines day for a reason for a sexy occasion, what is not sexy about Easter! Happy easter to all you pouncing couples!

One Special Night…

Lingerie, adult toys, bubble baths for two, etc. All of these ideas are perfect for spicing up your love life. Everyone loves some sexy romance, and hot lovin’, but for that one special night, for that once in a life time romantic evening, here is what you’ll need:

1.Dinner theater tickets

2.Lots of Favorite flowers

3.Fresh Fruit

4.Chocolate Frosting

5.Sweet Smelling Body Wash

6.Fluffy Bath Robe and Slippers For Two

Start the night off by surprising your partner with the tickets to dinner theater. “Oh what a nice surprise for dinner!” will be the reaction you’re looking for! Enjoy your evening, laugh, cry and all the emotions that will come from the play. Don’t over eat, however, as dessert will be served at home. Make sure to open her car doors and help her in and out of the vehicle by holding her hand.

Next, when she gets home, she will notice all the lovely, fresh smelling flowers you’ve left all over the bedroom (sneak them in right before you leave for dinner). She will wonder how she ever ended up with such a sweet man like you!

Next, turn on some sexy music, and close the bedroom door. She will be so romantically flattered. Slowly take her top off, and lay on the bed. Smear her with chocolate frosting and fruit, and lick it off! Let her do this to you, and have a fun time! This will bring on laughs and giggles, and all the giddy feelings that bring two people together.

After feeding each other dessert, and possibly after the hot love making that can be brought on by sexy fruit and frosting eating, take a hot shower together. Surprise her again with the new body wash you picked up, and take turns washing each other. This may be opportunity number two for getting down and dirty.

After your nice shower, bundle each other up in the fluffy robes and slip on your slippers. Go relax on the couch together, and enjoy some late night television until you both fall asleep in each others arms. This is the recipe for the perfect romantic evening together!